So I like a girl...

hero22 · Post by **hero22** » 12 Feb 2019, 21:10

barcajr wrote:You sound like a stalker

Lol my wife says the same. If u want a stalker u need to spend the day with my van partner !

Glampostie · Post by **Glampostie** » 13 Feb 2019, 17:33

S*%t I’m a woman and in no way would feel threaten by someone asking me out, regardless of time and place etc

Snowflake generation, always something to moan about! And I’m only 30!

Woody Guthrie · Post by **Woody Guthrie** » 13 Feb 2019, 17:50

I can kind of understand where & is coming from but I think it's one of those situations we all hate where you have to read the signs.
If I was going to ask anyone out on their own doorstep the signs would have to be pretty blatant.

Glampostie · Post by **Glampostie** » 13 Feb 2019, 18:01

Yeah I get that, but there is nothing wrong with man or woman asking someone out for a drink/date, it’s then up to that person if they wish too or not, and if they do happy days if not then the person asking should respect that! I dunno Maybe My views are wrong but that’s what I believe, now days there’s always a problem and lots of people need to relax a little and enjoy life, after all you only get one!

Ren Hoëk · Post by **Ren Hoëk** » 13 Feb 2019, 18:33

I think you are asking for trouble by doing something like this. People do have a right to privacy and someones home is not a neutral environment. It could be seen as creepy. You could make this person feel incredibly uncomfortable. Another poster has already said you have access to their private correspondence. There is already a power in-balance with your relationship. Not to mention you have gained private information about where they live and used it for personal ends. Genuinely a sackable offence.

Now, We don't know the exact relationship you have with this person so maybe the signs were pretty solid for an advance but if they weren't i wouldn't have done what you did. After all, how long have you spent with this person whilst on delivery to garner enough info? I certainly wouldn't have the time.

hero22 · Post by **hero22** » 13 Feb 2019, 22:24

Glampostie wrote:S*%t I’m a woman and in no way would feel threaten by someone asking me out, regardless of time and place etc Snowflake generation, always something to moan about! And I’m only 30!

misstmac · Post by **misstmac** » 14 Feb 2019, 01:27

I’ve had something similar happen to me (a regular courier driver).I can honestly say the last thing I felt was unsafe. And before the pc brigade chime in with things like you don’t know if the woman in question may have had some bad history etc, of course you don’t. But that’s the same scenario as chatting to someone in a bar/gym/supermarket!

In my opinion as long as you are respectful in your approach and can take it on the chin if the answer comes back as no then crack on!

Imagine if no one ever took a chance on a girl/boy they liked. The world would be a much lonelier place.

gimba · Post by **gimba** » 14 Feb 2019, 07:47

The original poster hasnt posted since 5th January
He's gone, move on /close thread

Post by **aiden01** » 14 Feb 2019, 10:43

gimba wrote:The original poster hasnt posted since 5th January
He's gone, move on /close thread

But lots of new posters are having there say why should it be closed. Are you a moderator on this site??

Post by **aiden01** » 14 Feb 2019, 10:44

gimba wrote:The original poster hasnt posted since 5th January
He's gone, move on /close thread

If you dont like it juat ignore it.

Acca Dacca · Post by **Acca Dacca** » 14 Feb 2019, 17:19

misstmac wrote:I’ve had something similar happen to me (a regular courier driver).I can honestly say the last thing I felt was unsafe. And before the pc brigade chime in with things like you don’t know if the woman in question may have had some bad history etc, of course you don’t. But that’s the same scenario as chatting to someone in a bar/gym/supermarket!

In my opinion as long as you are respectful in your approach and can take it on the chin if the answer comes back as no then crack on!

Imagine if no one ever took a chance on a girl/boy they liked. The world would be a much lonelier place.

With all due respect, that is in no way comparable

He is the woman's postman. He is at her door every day. He handles her private mail and will be chapping her door to give her parcels face to face.

Thats not the same as saying no to someone in a bar yer likely to never see again.

Ive never had the luxury of turning down someone interested in me and had to bump into them time and time again after the knockback but I cant imagine it'd be anything other than pretty awkward if nothing else.

Post by **Murdoch** » 14 Feb 2019, 18:31

My original advice to the OP was to not ask the woman out using a p739.

Not only because it's kinda lame, but also because the world is now full of perpetually offended snowflakes, eager and waiting to post their next "outrage" on social media.

Too much potential for that to come back and bite him on the ass...

arnold cheshire · Post by **arnold cheshire** » 16 Feb 2019, 18:39

If only life was sweet

Post by **aiden01** » 16 Feb 2019, 20:50

arnold cheshire wrote:If only life was sweet

Life is what you make of it mate. plenty of help out there if you need it good luck.

arnold cheshire · Post by **arnold cheshire** » 17 Feb 2019, 16:32

I was going to start a thread about the couples In RM that is on rmtv . This is doing nothing for mental health issues . Do they like rubbing it that the other postie likes someone else?