second stage 3 with depression

pants123 · Post by **pants123** » 08 Jul 2016, 16:37

TrueBlueTerrier wrote:

Depression needs to be helped not scourned....

As I do.. its hard...

cuddyhung · Post by **cuddyhung** » 08 Jul 2016, 20:08

he should be covered by The Equality Act 2010 this replaced the disability discrimination act ,, if he has a proveable history of mental illness he should be fine ,, they may offer him IHR to try and get him off the books ,, i this is the way i left over 2 years ago , i had documented episodes of depression over more than a 10 year period abd was offered IHR and got to keep my shares as a good leaver ,, it was the job causing me the depression after 5 years of bullying and harrasment from my manager

Post by **mudmonster** » 17 Jul 2016, 13:15

cuddyhung wrote:he should be covered by The Equality Act 2010 this replaced the disability discrimination act ,, if he has a proveable history of mental illness he should be fine ,, they may offer him IHR to try and get him off the books ,, i this is the way i left over 2 years ago , i had documented episodes of depression over more than a 10 year period abd was offered IHR and got to keep my shares as a good leaver ,, it was the job causing me the depression after 5 years of bullying and harrasment from my manager

Same here only mine was through so called colleagues /workmates and Royal Mail didn't do anything about it!!!!!!!!!!!

wheresourmoney · Post by **wheresourmoney** » 31 Aug 2016, 15:24

wheresourmoney wrote:Hi, can anyone help me with some advice for a work mate who has reached his second stage 3 with depression, he is under the doctor, he is also on medication,do you think we have a chance in saving his job.

just to give everyone an update,we collected all the advice we were given,sat him down, and explained to him what he had to do to keep his job, but alas he did not seem to retain the info, it was like he had lost the will to live and he just gave up, so therefore he lost his job and his shares, we wish him all the best for the future.

malcdj · Post by **malcdj** » 31 Aug 2016, 18:05

I got out on IHR due to depression brought on from years of bullying and harassment by incompetent management just before Christmas last year and I've never felt better. Got a new job within weeks of leaving and now go to work and come again with a smile on my fave and spring in my step
Don't miss RM one little bit. Just feel sorry for everyone going through what I had to put with and from going on this site, there are loads. All I can say is keep going you will be away from it one day.

k979aaa · Post by **k979aaa** » 31 Aug 2016, 18:42

malcdj wrote:I got out on IHR due to depression brought on from years of bullying and harassment by incompetent management just before Christmas last year and I've never felt better. Got a new job within weeks of leaving and now go to work and come again with a smile on my fave and spring in my step
Don't miss RM one little bit. Just feel sorry for everyone going through what I had to put with and from going on this site, there are loads. All I can say is keep going you will be away from it one day.

Well said there is life after RM and most times a better one because the people upon high don't give a f**k for anyone else but themselves. Glad to see a positive out come for you thinking of leaving the sinking ship myself before all the rat's eat the last people and themselves in the process of survival!

DB1100 · Post by **DB1100** » 02 Sep 2016, 16:53

wheresourmoney wrote:
wheresourmoney wrote:Hi, can anyone help me with some advice for a work mate who has reached his second stage 3 with depression, he is under the doctor, he is also on medication,do you think we have a chance in saving his job.
just to give everyone an update,we collected all the advice we were given,sat him down, and explained to him what he had to do to keep his job, but alas he did not seem to retain the info, it was like he had lost the will to live and he just gave up, so therefore he lost his job and his shares, we wish him all the best for the future.

Try and keep in touch with him,has he got any family because I fear this will not end well.

wheresourmoney · Post by **wheresourmoney** » 03 Sep 2016, 17:10

DB1100 wrote:
wheresourmoney wrote:
wheresourmoney wrote:Hi, can anyone help me with some advice for a work mate who has reached his second stage 3 with depression, he is under the doctor, he is also on medication,do you think we have a chance in saving his job.
just to give everyone an update,we collected all the advice we were given,sat him down, and explained to him what he had to do to keep his job, but alas he did not seem to retain the info, it was like he had lost the will to live and he just gave up, so therefore he lost his job and his shares, we wish him all the best for the future.
Try and keep in touch with him,has he got any family because I fear this will not end well.

we do aim to keep an eye on him,and unfortunatly regarding family, his dad has died and his mum suffers from ms and he has to care for her.

DB1100 · Post by **DB1100** » 03 Sep 2016, 18:58

wheresourmoney wrote:
DB1100 wrote:
wheresourmoney wrote:
wheresourmoney wrote:Hi, can anyone help me with some advice for a work mate who has reached his second stage 3 with depression, he is under the doctor, he is also on medication,do you think we have a chance in saving his job.
just to give everyone an update,we collected all the advice we were given,sat him down, and explained to him what he had to do to keep his job, but alas he did not seem to retain the info, it was like he had lost the will to live and he just gave up, so therefore he lost his job and his shares, we wish him all the best for the future.
Try and keep in touch with him,has he got any family because I fear this will not end well.
we do aim to keep an eye on him,and unfortunatly regarding family, his dad has died and his mum suffers from ms and he has to care for her.

Well done.