Thanks for all the good thoughts, folks. I definitely will continue visiting the boards, maybe not as often but I'll be around. You cant just stop being a postie. Well, obviously you can, and I have, but it's not like flicking an off switch in your mind and instantly stopping a way of thinking and feeling. At the moment, I feel like I'm on a weeks A/L.
And next week my DO, ahem my ex-DO, start late finishes on Saturdays. The timing worked out well after all.
Just spilt stain-remover down my shirt. Now how do I get that out?