Bullied at work !!!

[pcb]

Just ring the bullying and harassment helpline and tell them. They wil come down like a ton of bricks. The B/H helpline is very effective!

THE NUMBER IS:

08005874777

If he is a member of the union inform your Area Rep and Branch Sec of his actions concerning union literature.

You cannot do your job properly looking after the members with this idiot acting the way he is! So please ring the number.

[BDR]

TRY THIS - it worked for a collegue in a similar situation - management know this individual is a bully but look the other way- put in a health and safety complaint against all line managers and DOM for employing the scum,- you don`t need witnesses or anything - RM are legally bound to sort the matter out and wont have a leg to stand on next time he has a go at someone.

[johnnyp]

Ask your Dom for a HR1 form.

[marky]

maybe he see's you a kiss ass. i know of a workplace coach who runs and tells the dom everything about the workers in the office, a tout he has even made up lies about people to back up the dom to try and get some members the sack.

[clashcityrocker]

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Thank you for that helpful contribution to the thread.
Could be barred? Let's hope so.

[Theghost]

Office Bully yourself are you Marky?
Do yourself a favour and keep it shut,Nothing constructive to say then dont say it.

[TrueBlueTerrier]

maybe he see's you a kiss ass. i know of a workplace coach who runs and tells the dom everything about the workers in the office, a tout he has even made up lies about people to back up the dom to try and get some members the sack.

Strange logic - yours does that so every other workplace coach does it by default.

Is it any wonder that people of foreign decent get such a welcome in these Islands when people who live in all its corners try to label everyone and put them into little boxes. In some places it still happens to people from the Emerald Isle.

Everyone is different you will always have bad eggs in every place its not a good idea to tar everyone with the same brush just because they happen to fit a self perceived stereotype.

[not me]

Im no fan of the whole office coach set regarding extra payments etc,however its a different matter

OP why are you even accepting this,man up and get in and make the DIM DOM earn his blood money
Start using the system
bully helpline or whatever
In our office ive known guys hauled over the coals for(what i deem) sill little comments
what you are describing goes far far beyond that

[andy2007]

I'm being constantly bullied by a work colleague he has previously threatened to beat me up after punching his frame just to show someone what he would like to do to my face, while I was innocently passing. When I'm prepping my frame (after DOM tells me too) he walks passes & has a dig & shrugs his head & shouts that I get £30 extra per week to go on my frame early (I'm office coach).
When I handed everyone in our office union correspondence he scrunched it up & threw it in the bin & mouthed off obscenities.(I'm Union Rep).
He says things outside work about my family. Any advice ??

Has anything been done about the Bully yet?
How are you coping?

[robinhood]

Thanks for your support im encouraged by it all.......I recently got this idiot off a B&H charge by a genuine pmn who had to go off sick after 18 months of hell at the hands of the office bully. This is the respect I get !!! He even had the cheeks to phone me at home crying for me to help !!!

fraid you gotta tackle him.
look him in the face and ask him to stop bullying you.
if he doesnt, get your union to support you. even if you are a rep you are entitlzen at mineed to full support.
if you think he will personally arm you seek advice from the local plod too.
good luck m8
these people exist in every office.
good half dozen at mine

[postghost]

Everything you need to do has already been covered in the thread.

Best of luck!!

[andy2007]

And please let us know how you get on.

[islfor]

Bully has come up to me and shook my hand and apologised for his behaviour in the past few months his excuse was that he thought I had slated him in a recent HYS !!! I have stopped filling them in since 18 months cos nothing ever gets done about it.

[stokes11eg]

Bully has come up to me and shook my hand and apologised for his behaviour in the past few months his excuse was that he thought I had slated him in a recent HYS !!! I have stopped filling them in since 18 months cos nothing ever gets done about it.

Good. hope you're feeling happier now.

[robinhood]

Bully has come up to me and shook my hand and apologised for his behaviour in the past few months his excuse was that he thought I had slated him in a recent HYS !!! I have stopped filling them in since 18 months cos nothing ever gets done about it.

good news.
but a word of caution, keep a record of the conversation and dates, witness etc and keep a diary!!
good luck