Woody Guthrie wrote:How you can assume I know nothing about bullying.....
Because you don't even recognise it in yourself.
Your divisive language, your desperate need to blame and your unwillingness to see any point of view but your own are all attributes of a bully.
You see sides, black and white, right and wrong, a fight to be won, your way or the highway.
I see people.
Not dead ones though.
You see dead people,

looking in a mirror I suspect. ( must admit your comment is way over my head, bullshit )
You deride some colleagues as being below standard therefore they go in early, then slag me off for detailing a genuine source for reasoned debate that fuels the very subject, that of creating a bullying opportunity culture which the DOMs can fully exploit, it then becomes a tool in their armoury to use against those who don’t start before time! Is that speaking in divisive language?
Why am I wrong for speaking out against a bullying opportunity to be used by DOMs, while you in condoning the early starters validate and support it, are right?
Divisive language and a need to blame others? So you tell me how bullying exists within RM, blame must lie somewhere.?
You, with your opinion are justifying it in a perverse manner, like its deserved with no blame attributed too any others.
People starting early inextricably place pressure on others who don’t, whether intended or not. That is an undeniable fact, whether you accept it or not, blame lies where warranted and intolerance is not my forte, turning a blind eye IS yours.
You support people sitting in the house watching loose women while being paid, while others are still on the street.
A fine example of humanity in action. I can assure you I am not a bully, never have been and never will be.
There is no side to take in bullying, it really is simple -either black or white. I despise bully’s, unfortunately there are plenty in the RM management structure. I am 100% against bullying while you seem to think that because I state if they started on time the others would not need to endure any undue pressure and bullying, as a result of their actions.
You think I am bullying people who go in early by criticising them, it’s laughable in the extreme.
I believe, and know it does impact upon others and the DOMs use it relentlessly, whether you agree or not.
I know exactly the type of person I am and can sleep soundly in that knowledge. You on the other hand have a split loyalty in favour of the office big shots, I am happy to promote fairness and dignity for all. I fully accept that you do not understand my opinion and I would accept your point of view if it was sensible, but in reality it’s you and your cohorts who are divisive and would not lift a finger to defend those people less fortunate and who suffer directly from the bullying.
I do not regret for one second criticising people who perpetuate bullying, colleagues or RM management - even Reps.
You on the other hand are throwing petrol on the fire while convincing yourselves that you are really the good guys.
This site has now become a breeding ground for many selfish/ self centred sorts who try hard to convince others they have some sort of social conscience, the reality is not true.

aye you!
