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Happy Christmas my dead friend

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Mr Blonde
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Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by Mr Blonde »

It amazes me the number of people who send Christmas cards to people who've been dead, in some cases well over a year. I've had two already on my delivery and I'm sure there'll be more.
Captain Scarlet
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by Captain Scarlet »

Is this not indicative of today's society, surely a friend is someone you care about enough to actually talk to even if it may only be 1/2 times over the course of weeks or months.
Sadly people have 'no time' in their 'busy' lives to even check on elderly neighbours never mind to find out if 'friends' are still alive.
I feel sad for the friends I have lost over the years that is why I keep in touch regardless even if they are on the other side of the world, the internet and twitter/facebook all have their place at times so how hard is it to keep in touch :sad:
fishtank
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by fishtank »

Some people keep Christmas card lists to save them the bother of remembering every year.
Some of them are as out of date as the Virgin Media database.

I don't send any cards.
My BT friends and family list includes a Chinese take-away,a taxi firm and my local pub.
None of those get a card either.
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Lounge Lizard
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by Lounge Lizard »

And year after year a firm sends a big calendar to "The executors of Mr ........" on my round. :crazy:
dvbuk55
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by dvbuk55 »

fishtank wrote:Some people keep Christmas card lists to save them the bother of remembering every year.
Some of them are as out of date as the Virgin Media database.

I don't send any cards.
My BT friends and family list includes a Chinese take-away,a taxi firm and my local pub.
None of those get a card either.
:cry What me neither? :chuckle

You're spot on though, I keep the addresses of people in my office on a label printer, old workmates from my wifes employment, mine, relatives I haven't seen in years.............old habits die hard.
justdeno
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by justdeno »

I know people who are old. I always put a return address on the back of the card, so if they have died or moved I will know. :sad:
BernardBresslaw
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by BernardBresslaw »

When a family member dies, believe it or not, the last thing on your mind is phoning up every person you've ever met, to let them know.
mandelsons_toenail
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by mandelsons_toenail »

BernardBresslaw wrote:When a family member dies, believe it or not, the last thing on your mind is phoning up every person you've ever met, to let them know.
:Applause
Bahia Feliz
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by Bahia Feliz »

BernardBresslaw wrote:When a family member dies, believe it or not, the last thing on your mind is phoning up every person you've ever met, to let them know.
Not straight away maybe,but to let people know the funeral arrangements etc?
bustedflush
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by bustedflush »

Mr Blonde wrote:It amazes me the number of people who send Christmas cards to people who've been dead, in some cases well over a year. I've had two already on my delivery and I'm sure there'll be more.

What worries me far more is when dead people send them to those still alive.
DB1100
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by DB1100 »

I fall out with everybody at Christmas so I don't have to send cards or presents.
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General Mannerheim
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Re: Happy Christmas my dead friend

Post by General Mannerheim »

bustedflush wrote:
Mr Blonde wrote:It amazes me the number of people who send Christmas cards to people who've been dead, in some cases well over a year. I've had two already on my delivery and I'm sure there'll be more.

What worries me far more is when dead people send them to those still alive.
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