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LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

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swintontillidie
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LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by swintontillidie »

Been told today that I can't have any time off to attend my uncles funeral as he is not an immediate relative.Asked to book a days leave but wS told nobody can book any time off as there is a shortage of staff.So my father who is 94 years of age cannot attend his own brothers funeral as he has nobody to take him.Ive done thirty years and find this utterly deplorable.
bustedflush
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Post by bustedflush »

Shows what the DIM is made of. Sorry to hear it.
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DB1100
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by DB1100 »

swintontillidie wrote:Been told today that I can't have any time off to attend my uncles funeral as he is not an immediate relative.Asked to book a days leave but wS told nobody can book any time off as there is a shortage of staff.So my father who is 94 years of age cannot attend his own brothers funeral as he has nobody to take him.Ive done thirty years and find this utterly deplorable.
Nothing surprises me about how low this company has got now,some aspects are still good,but wherever delivery managers are involved it all goes to ratsh1t,what happens when you cut off?,in our office they bring people in from nearby offices to cover it.What would be wrong in this case if they were to do the same thing? to cover this person's day off for the funeral.To be honest the way things are at our place and knowing that unless you are one of the gaffers club it is nigh on impossible to get a day off I would just not tell anybody and phone in sick for the day because you have to look after your elderly father.
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Chelseablue
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Post by Chelseablue »

I would go higher ,area rep .
gary1975
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by gary1975 »

Sick leave due to stress of not being allowed to attend a relatives funeral , I know two people gone sick this week just because of the election shite we have to deliver this week
feduppostie
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by feduppostie »

you are entitled to one days special leave A (paid) for an uncle's funeral

Ask him to check the special leave guidelines
lollollol
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by lollollol »

Email Moya... I'm sure she will frown upon the actions of your DIM in this instance...
smileski
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by smileski »

swintontillidie wrote:Been told today that I can't have any time off to attend my uncles funeral as he is not an immediate relative.Asked to book a days leave but wS told nobody can book any time off as there is a shortage of staff.So my father who is 94 years of age cannot attend his own brothers funeral as he has nobody to take him.Ive done thirty years and find this utterly deplorable.
Sorry to hear your news mate.
Unfortunately Uncle/Auntie bereavement seems to have been removed from the paid special leave guidelines.
However your DIM can't stop you going.
Annual leave, swap your day off or unpaid leave are all options.
Talk to your rep so he can help 'persuade' the 'manager'
Whatever you choose your father comes before RM.
maisymoo04
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Post by maisymoo04 »

Go sick cheeky tw@@@ arnt they :evil/mad :no no
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Darren Bent
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Post by Darren Bent »

Royal Mail is always like that whenever reasons you need a day off :( What time the funeral ? Try to swap day off with a friend if possible.
feduppostie
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by feduppostie »

smileski wrote:
swintontillidie wrote:Been told today that I can't have any time off to attend my uncles funeral as he is not an immediate relative.Asked to book a days leave but wS told nobody can book any time off as there is a shortage of staff.So my father who is 94 years of age cannot attend his own brothers funeral as he has nobody to take him.Ive done thirty years and find this utterly deplorable.
Sorry to hear your news mate.
Unfortunately Uncle/Auntie bereavement seems to have been removed from the paid special leave guidelines.
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When was it removed? It was always tucked away near the bottom

AFAIK any direct blood relative one step removed as it were (i.e grandparent, auntie, uncle) is 1 day spl A

I would ask to see the special leave guidelines again and check for yourself

I will ask tomorrow for the latest version and report back as I know someone in my office had a day for an uncle's funeral last week
korky
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Post by korky »

my line manager quickly swapped my day off to coincide with my mothers funeral!
smileski
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by smileski »

feduppostie wrote:
smileski wrote:
swintontillidie wrote:Been told today that I can't have any time off to attend my uncles funeral as he is not an immediate relative.Asked to book a days leave but wS told nobody can book any time off as there is a shortage of staff.So my father who is 94 years of age cannot attend his own brothers funeral as he has nobody to take him.Ive done thirty years and find this utterly deplorable.
Sorry to hear your news mate.
Unfortunately Uncle/Auntie bereavement seems to have been removed from the paid special leave guidelines.
.
When was it removed? It was always tucked away near the bottom

AFAIK any direct blood relative one step removed as it were (i.e grandparent, auntie, uncle) is 1 day spl A

I would ask to see the special leave guidelines again and check for yourself

I will ask tomorrow for the latest version and report back as I know someone in my office had a day for an uncle's funeral last week
It did used to be there (after grandparent) but I believe it has now been removed :sad:
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feduppostie
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Post by feduppostie »

Is that an offical RM document? no date on it

I will ask tomorrow for a copy

It looks like a typed up one rather than one taken from the website
rehabron
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Re: LEAVE TO ATTEND FUNERALS

Post by rehabron »

Guidance notes for arranging special leave:
BEREAVEMENT : FOR A MORE DISTANT RELATIVE EG. PARENT IN LAW, GRANDPARENT, AUNT, UNCLE - ONE DAY WITH PAY.
Still appears on the special leave list and taken from the CWU site. Unfortunately unable to copy and paste.
Get your union rep to contact HQ to have this confirmed.