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postiemids
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harrassment

Post by postiemids »

want some advice please

dom has been following me on my walk once last week and then on sat and i had a message on facebook stating this

Steev smith ( not real name) took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.

this is the message i got coupled with the following me on me walk iam starting to feel very stressed with the situation im on a stage 2 and cannot go off with anything otherwise il be stage 3 and away ya go anyway what can i do

seems to have ramped up a gear since ive stoppped using my car and taking my break before i go out is this bullying and harrassment or not
postiemids
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DJLEIGHP wrote:want some advice please

dom has been following me on my walk once last week and then on sat and i had a message on facebook stating this

Steev smith ( not real name) took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.

this is the message i got coupled with the following me on me walk iam starting to feel very stressed with the situation im on a stage 2 and cannot go off with anything otherwise il be stage 3 and away ya go anyway what can i do

seems to have ramped up a gear since ive stoppped using my car and taking my break before i go out is this bullying and harrassment or not
PLUS the dom has told union rep hes watchin me which the union rep told me casuing me further pressure
Dumpys Rusty Nuts
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Post by Dumpys Rusty Nuts »

something not ringing true here,the dom has told union rep that they are watching you,what did your union rep say to you/dom
postiemids
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Dumpys Rusty Nuts wrote:something not ringing true here,the dom has told union rep that they are watching you,what did your union rep say to you/dom
that is what he said to the rep cos that what he told me said its not just you theres a couple hes watching with the message i got off the collegue earlier and with him watchin me iam very stressed
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DJLEIGHP wrote:
Dumpys Rusty Nuts wrote:something not ringing true here,the dom has told union rep that they are watching you,what did your union rep say to you/dom
that is what he said to the rep cos that what he told me said its not just you theres a couple hes watching with the message i got off the collegue earlier and with him watchin me iam very stressed
do you think its worth putting in a H1 FORM as i have one here
Dumpys Rusty Nuts
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Post by Dumpys Rusty Nuts »

is your rep ok with manager doing this[pm me if you want some real advice]
postiemids
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Dumpys Rusty Nuts wrote:is your rep ok with manager doing this[pm me if you want some real advice]
ive pm you mate
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Post by monkeymutha »

Something ain't right here. When your work problems start invading your personal life i.e. facebook, then you have a real problem and it becomes harrasment and an invasion of your privacy. If someone has had a word with someone else who has subsequently posted on your facebook page then is there not a breach of confidentiality here? You should chat to your rep first chance you get find out what is going on and if not happy speak to your area rep. You have rights to do your job properly without being harrassed. You must be under awful stress mate and I feel sorry for you.
Patrick301
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Post by Patrick301 »

as usual
union and managment working together
the rep and manager are probably best mates
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Post by maisymoo04 »

F@@@ me am I hearin correctly hear what hells goin on you bein serious here :shock: :shock:
"Some day I will have the bottle to take the money"
postiemids
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maisymoo04 wrote:F@@@ me am I hearin correctly hear what hells goin on you bein serious here :shock: :shock:
yer this what someone msg me on facebook earlier

blah blah took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.
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Post by Stella102 »

sounds like a classic case of b&h contact your area rep
General Mannerheim
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Stella102 wrote:sounds like a classic case of b&h contact your area rep
Good grief!
Why what is a classic case? :roll: :roll:
Royal Mail managers.....about as popular as a t.urd in a swimming pool!
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flaminmoses
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Post by flaminmoses »

sounds like a stalker to me.

police matter
arnold cheshire
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Post by arnold cheshire »

a dim contacted you on facebook ?