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harrassment
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postiemids
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harrassment
want some advice please
dom has been following me on my walk once last week and then on sat and i had a message on facebook stating this
Steev smith ( not real name) took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.
this is the message i got coupled with the following me on me walk iam starting to feel very stressed with the situation im on a stage 2 and cannot go off with anything otherwise il be stage 3 and away ya go anyway what can i do
seems to have ramped up a gear since ive stoppped using my car and taking my break before i go out is this bullying and harrassment or not
dom has been following me on my walk once last week and then on sat and i had a message on facebook stating this
Steev smith ( not real name) took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.
this is the message i got coupled with the following me on me walk iam starting to feel very stressed with the situation im on a stage 2 and cannot go off with anything otherwise il be stage 3 and away ya go anyway what can i do
seems to have ramped up a gear since ive stoppped using my car and taking my break before i go out is this bullying and harrassment or not
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postiemids
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Re: harrassment
PLUS the dom has told union rep hes watchin me which the union rep told me casuing me further pressureDJLEIGHP wrote:want some advice please
dom has been following me on my walk once last week and then on sat and i had a message on facebook stating this
Steev smith ( not real name) took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.
this is the message i got coupled with the following me on me walk iam starting to feel very stressed with the situation im on a stage 2 and cannot go off with anything otherwise il be stage 3 and away ya go anyway what can i do
seems to have ramped up a gear since ive stoppped using my car and taking my break before i go out is this bullying and harrassment or not
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Dumpys Rusty Nuts
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Re: harrassment
something not ringing true here,the dom has told union rep that they are watching you,what did your union rep say to you/dom
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postiemids
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Re: harrassment
that is what he said to the rep cos that what he told me said its not just you theres a couple hes watching with the message i got off the collegue earlier and with him watchin me iam very stressedDumpys Rusty Nuts wrote:something not ringing true here,the dom has told union rep that they are watching you,what did your union rep say to you/dom
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postiemids
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Re: harrassment
do you think its worth putting in a H1 FORM as i have one hereDJLEIGHP wrote:that is what he said to the rep cos that what he told me said its not just you theres a couple hes watching with the message i got off the collegue earlier and with him watchin me iam very stressedDumpys Rusty Nuts wrote:something not ringing true here,the dom has told union rep that they are watching you,what did your union rep say to you/dom
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Dumpys Rusty Nuts
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Re: harrassment
is your rep ok with manager doing this[pm me if you want some real advice]
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postiemids
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Re: harrassment
ive pm you mateDumpys Rusty Nuts wrote:is your rep ok with manager doing this[pm me if you want some real advice]
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monkeymutha
- Posts: 317
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- Gender: Female
- Location: At the bottom of the bottomless pit
Re: harrassment
Something ain't right here. When your work problems start invading your personal life i.e. facebook, then you have a real problem and it becomes harrasment and an invasion of your privacy. If someone has had a word with someone else who has subsequently posted on your facebook page then is there not a breach of confidentiality here? You should chat to your rep first chance you get find out what is going on and if not happy speak to your area rep. You have rights to do your job properly without being harrassed. You must be under awful stress mate and I feel sorry for you.
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Patrick301
- MAIL CENTRES/PROCESSING
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- Joined: 21 Sep 2008, 22:04
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Re: harrassment
as usual
union and managment working together
the rep and manager are probably best mates
union and managment working together
the rep and manager are probably best mates
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maisymoo04
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- Location: You dont want to no
Re: harrassment
F@@@ me am I hearin correctly hear what hells goin on you bein serious here

"Some day I will have the bottle to take the money"
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postiemids
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Re: harrassment
yer this what someone msg me on facebook earliermaisymoo04 wrote:F@@@ me am I hearin correctly hear what hells goin on you bein serious here![]()
blah blah took me aside yesterday and asked me to have a word. You are on a temporary contract and he heard the new dom ain't too happy with you. Tread very carefully mate, I don't mean kiss arses, but if you plan to do what you said you'll do, do it by the book, and keep your mouth shut. Say the wrong word to the wrong person and they will stab you in the back mate.
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Stella102
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Re: harrassment
sounds like a classic case of b&h contact your area rep
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General Mannerheim
- EX ROYAL MAIL
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- Location: Stalag 17
Re: harrassment
Good grief!Stella102 wrote:sounds like a classic case of b&h contact your area rep
Why what is a classic case?
Royal Mail managers.....about as popular as a t.urd in a swimming pool!
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
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flaminmoses
- EX ROYAL MAIL
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Re: harrassment
sounds like a stalker to me.
police matter
police matter
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arnold cheshire
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Re: harrassment
a dim contacted you on facebook ?