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Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
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postypie
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Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
over the last couple of years i have seen more and more staff members (both new starters and oldies)...crying...
i have seen two box counter staff members cry
....one delivery chap...quite a few girls on the floor(young girls)...and even a line manager only a few weeks ago looked liked they had shed a tear after a good tongue lashing from a DOM....i have noticed crying does draw attention and support from colleagues and CWU reps...often offering a shoulder to criers ...perhaps this is the way forward for all of us..instead of arguing with managers/Doms and getting worked up..etc..let's just all cry..as from what i have seen things do improve once people have started to cry.

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BingBong
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
Any manager in any job that makes someone cry deserves a smacking. Just bullies. Weak.postypie wrote:over the last couple of years i have seen more and more staff members (both new starters and oldies)...crying...![]()
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....one delivery chap...quite a few girls on the floor(young girls)...and even a line manager only a few weeks ago after a good tongue lashing from a DOM....i have noticed crying does draw attention and support from colleagues and CWU reps...often offering a shoulder to criers ...perhaps this is the way forward for all of us..instead of arguing with managers/Doms and getting worked up..etc..let's just all cry..as from what i have seen things do improve once people have started to cry.
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Straight4ward
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
I’m not convinced that anyone benefits from being reduced to tears in the workplace unless it’s from laughter at some of RM’s more ridiculous ideas.
"Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway."
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clashcityrocker
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
I think this is one of the legacies of the Olympics.
From being known for a stiff upper lip, we are now a nation of blubbers.
I now cry every week at the Resourcing Meeting.
From being known for a stiff upper lip, we are now a nation of blubbers.
I now cry every week at the Resourcing Meeting.
The societies of consumption and squandering of material resources are incompatible with the idea of economic growth and a clean planet.
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feduppostie
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
I think we should start a movement to get pissed more often
it's much more manly than crying

it's much more manly than crying
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fishtank
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
I think this goes all the way back to Gazza and Italia 90.clashcityrocker wrote:I think this is one of the legacies of the Olympics.
From being known for a stiff upper lip, we are now a nation of blubbers.
I now cry every week at the Resourcing Meeting.
I nearly pissed myself that day...but that's another story.
I actually blame it on Eastenders,the men on that show are either crying or killing each other or both.
Life is a rollercoaster according to Ronan.
good times, bad times you know I've had my share
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DB1100
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
Nah,much better if you were allowed one fight a week.
For we were soldiers once,and young
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Lounge Lizard
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
I've noticed it more the last couple of years.
I think it's the coalition government.
I think it's the coalition government.
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eastie
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
We had one postie a year or so ago started crying a few times and then one day he was found on the floor in the toilets in the faetal position after a row with a DOM.
An ambulance was called as he was unresponsive and they took him away and he never came back and was paid off.
Plus he got his full Colleague Share allowance
An ambulance was called as he was unresponsive and they took him away and he never came back and was paid off.
Plus he got his full Colleague Share allowance
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General Mannerheim
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
Yeah mental health issues are on the increase.eastie wrote:We had one postie a year or so ago started crying a few times and then one day he was found on the floor in the toilets in the faetal position after a row with a DOM.
An ambulance was called as he was unresponsive and they took him away and he never came back and was paid off.
Plus he got his full Colleague Share allowance
Nice dig about him getting his full colleague shares though,I'm sure his family will be ever so grateful now he's out of work.
Royal Mail managers.....about as popular as a t.urd in a swimming pool!
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
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eastie
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
He was a relation to friend of mine and he was faking it.
He's now back at work for another employer
He's now back at work for another employer
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worktotime
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
totally agree 3 mins in a ring with a dom with gloves on , i bet we would feel a lot better .DB1100 wrote:Nah,much better if you were allowed one fight a week.
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apple
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
god sounds like our office, only difference is people go in and ask for a favour, change days off, hols, walk, etc DOM says no, they start crying and they get what they want, works every time, one of the nicknames is Thames, you work it out
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pink_lady
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
its not good practice to make your workforce cry.
sore subject for me, after publicly humilating me, i couldnt stop myself from welling up in front of my work colleagues who had attempted to console. maybe i'm just hormonal.
next day everything fine though.
sore subject for me, after publicly humilating me, i couldnt stop myself from welling up in front of my work colleagues who had attempted to console. maybe i'm just hormonal.
next day everything fine though.
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Stella102
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Re: Crying...........maybe we should all do it more often?
chaps in our office sort their problems out of work in plain clothes