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Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Postal workers discussion forum. Discuss the day to day life in a Blue Shirt.
postypie
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Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by postypie »

with the exception of a couple of lads in my office(who i drink with) i would not trust anyone else...and that includes some CWU reps we have...just get the feeling that if they could drop me or people in it(outsiders,who are not in their friends and family club)..they would...sad thing to say,but that is the way not only i feel but i would say most other staff members i have talked to feel..who seem to all say the same thing...''watch your back'' and keep your head down... :sad: :sad:
In my previous job(Building trade)..never had this problem or feeling..went out most nights with the lads i worked with..clubbing it..having a laugh..built strong friendships(which still last) with people i trusted..working at RM...it's hard to know who to trust nowadays...dog eat dog seems to be the theme...not only in my office,but others too from what people tell me....what a lovely company to work with....
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Doglover
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Re: Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by Doglover »

After a number of years in the armed forces, I find the lack of trust is down to the lack of teamwork, too many people being ''jack'' and just looking after their own duties.
jontickle
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Joined: 17 Dec 2009, 18:24
Gender: Male

Re: Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by jontickle »

Sherpas Rule wrote: Amazing how quickly rumours and gossip about people spread around the office, best to keep your mouth shut and your head down.

No matter where you go people always gossip about their workmates but never worked anywhere before where the second part of the above statement is the best thing you can do in work. I went out in a van a few weeks ago with an agency guy. Had never spoken to him before that day but while driving he proceeded to tell me my life history. Stuff others had told him about me. It was all bull but i thought it amusing that someone i'd never spoken to before was obviously having indepth conversations about me, with "colleagues" who were obviously telling him a pack of lies.
wiganpostie
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Joined: 09 Mar 2010, 20:16
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Re: Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by wiganpostie »

I trust a couple out of about three hundred staff. Says it all really. I tend to keep myself to myself most of the time, as the amount of bitching that goes on behind people's backs is depressing. :neutral:
The wanderer
MAIL CENTRES/PROCESSING
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Joined: 28 May 2012, 13:33
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Re: Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by The wanderer »

I trust my work colleagues like the weather.

On a good day when the sun is shining we all stand together.

On a bad day they would put the knife in my back no problem.

The problem with work colleagues is there is no long term trust, one week they are with you, the next they will abandon you.
I always feel like someone is watching me.
CORTINA
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Joined: 29 Jan 2009, 12:10
Gender: Male

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Post by CORTINA »

We come to work each day from a different lifestyle...we all have different attitueds and dislikes.....

Many get on well together with the odd exceptions ..... there will always be the black sheep amongst you that takes advantage of situations to their benefit and theft is sometimes a opportunity that some take advantage of..

Some will act according to how bad a situation becomes......pass the buck and watch your back the work time party game...
briantwigley
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Joined: 27 Mar 2012, 18:24
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Re: Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by briantwigley »

In our office its just everyone for themselves really, if theres any chance they can get away with doing nothing they take it. One or two are known to steal from friends too so who knows what happens when no one is looking!
DHARMA16
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Re: Do you trust your work mates....(colleagues)

Post by DHARMA16 »

Never trust anyone-a couple of my so called mates tried to shaft me at work so just rely on your self and TRUST NO ONE
Lounge Lizard
EX ROYAL MAIL
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Post by Lounge Lizard »

DHARMA16 wrote:Never trust anyone-a couple of my so called mates tried to shaft me at work so just rely on your self and TRUST NO ONE
That sounds serious. :shock:
R@YAL F@IL
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Post by R@YAL F@IL »

In my opinion it is all down to how the workers are managed and we all know that the quality of managers nowadays are pathetic hence why this topic has been posted :cuppa

In my office all line managers are failed posties whom recently enjoyed a nice fat bonus, dose not make sense does it? :d'oh!
NO bags on shoulders please except for Moya who keeps her big fat wage packet in hers
Stuart Murray
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Post by Stuart Murray »

camerderie went out the window when the 5 day week came in. all of a sudden everybody thinks their getting shafted with rturns on their day off. dont get me wrong the 5 day is the best thing to happen, but thats when the camerderie went out the job.
taurus88
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Post by taurus88 »

Trust is for losers.
krussel
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Post by krussel »

If book any extended OT then just 10 mins after ive told the guy on the balance i ve got some fellow postie moaning at me calling me lazy as they managed to finish on time :roll:

I trust one or two but thats about it. :sad:
Rows of houses all bearing down on me........I can feel their blue hands touching me.......All these things in all positions.........All these things will one day take control..........
pokos27
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Post by pokos27 »

just be careful what you say, people do change, ask yourself the question would you go out for a drink with the people ?
CORTINA
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Post by CORTINA »

Always remeber .....

Trust and Respect is from a bygone era........ from the management downwards.....

You are on your own in most things in life.......get used to it

NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING.....AND YOU WILL NEVER BE DISSAPOINTED.....

Think about it....you will have a better and less stressful life....