I know I've had a lot of Stage 3's but all beyond my control AOD, Depression from working in Callers, Operation, Blood Transfusion, what the hell am I meant to do
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Am I being picked on?
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Stormproof
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Am I being picked on?
LM handed me a letter from the DOM this morning asking me to give consent to attend ATOS Dr as I'm being considered for another Stage 3. I recently attended a Stage 3 interview due to an AOD which was reverted back to a Stage 2. A couple of weeks ago I caught Swine Flu, diagnosed via the NHS Pandemic Hotline, prescribed Tamiflu. Due to not wanting to go sick I had to try and work until the 2nd week of the illness I could barely breath and had to go home sick from work, I asked Ass DOM if this could be taken from my A/L he said 'No'. I took 3 days off. Now I receive this letter as they are 'considering the Stage 3 attendance procedure' I've just about had enough of all this s**t now and on the verge of balling my eyes out. What can I do? Spoken to my rep who said we will sort it tomorrow, but RM seems to have it in for me.
I know I've had a lot of Stage 3's but all beyond my control AOD, Depression from working in Callers, Operation, Blood Transfusion, what the hell am I meant to do

I know I've had a lot of Stage 3's but all beyond my control AOD, Depression from working in Callers, Operation, Blood Transfusion, what the hell am I meant to do
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viking1488
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Re: Am I being picked on?
talk to your cwu rep if that fails i would seek legal advice outside the royal mail i would tell your dom that your going to a solictor and put a grievance in against your dom do that tomorrow please dont let them grind you down thats what they want there is a lot you can do this is just another case of Bullying and harassment at work
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mailman337
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Re: Am I being picked on?
This certainly sounds like a rough deal for you, firstly, since the date of the st3 interview where it was bumped down to ST2 , how much time have you had absent? When already on a ST2 you have 2 separate abcenses or 10 days before you trigger a stage 3. If you havn't exceeded the "2 or 10" then they cannot even consider a stage 3.
Taking the Swine Flu into account, although it seems RM will not discount the illness despite govt advice to the contrary, I would think that just in relation to the fact that you risk spreading it to others if you come to work, an industrial tribunal would take a very dim view of any attendance procedure warnings connected with Swine Flu.
In addition, if you have been having treatment for depression for 12 months or more then you should come under the DDA rules whereby employer has to make reasonable adjustments .
If you get your Atos interview (prob over the phone) TELL THEM EVERYTHING YOU CAN ..... lay it on thick, as they say, don't be afraid to mention the depression as that is important.
See your CWU rep as soon as possible, if not in the union then get joined up pronto if you want to stand a chance.
If you want any more info, please send via private messages, I have been in the same stew myself and I know how you feel m8.
All the best for now.
Taking the Swine Flu into account, although it seems RM will not discount the illness despite govt advice to the contrary, I would think that just in relation to the fact that you risk spreading it to others if you come to work, an industrial tribunal would take a very dim view of any attendance procedure warnings connected with Swine Flu.
In addition, if you have been having treatment for depression for 12 months or more then you should come under the DDA rules whereby employer has to make reasonable adjustments .
If you get your Atos interview (prob over the phone) TELL THEM EVERYTHING YOU CAN ..... lay it on thick, as they say, don't be afraid to mention the depression as that is important.
See your CWU rep as soon as possible, if not in the union then get joined up pronto if you want to stand a chance.
If you want any more info, please send via private messages, I have been in the same stew myself and I know how you feel m8.
All the best for now.
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Stormproof
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Re: Am I being picked on?
I've had 1 absence of 3 days because of Swine Flu, I am going to try and appeal against the previous Stage 3 that was reverted back to a 2 as it was an AOD and I've now received a letter off the DWP stating that it was an Industrial Accidentmailman337 wrote:This certainly sounds like a rough deal for you, firstly, since the date of the st3 interview where it was bumped down to ST2 , how much time have you had absent? When already on a ST2 you have 2 separate abcenses or 10 days before you trigger a stage 3. If you havn't exceeded the "2 or 10" then they cannot even consider a stage 3.
Taking the Swine Flu into account, although it seems RM will not discount the illness despite govt advice to the contrary, I would think that just in relation to the fact that you risk spreading it to others if you come to work, an industrial tribunal would take a very dim view of any attendance procedure warnings connected with Swine Flu.
In addition, if you have been having treatment for depression for 12 months or more then you should come under the DDA rules whereby employer has to make reasonable adjustments .
If you get your Atos interview (prob over the phone) TELL THEM EVERYTHING YOU CAN ..... lay it on thick, as they say, don't be afraid to mention the depression as that is important.
See your CWU rep as soon as possible, if not in the union then get joined up pronto if you want to stand a chance.
If you want any more info, please send via private messages, I have been in the same stew myself and I know how you feel m8.
All the best for now.
So keep on moving, moving, moving your feet
Keep on shuf-shuf-shuffling to this ghost dance beat
Just keep on walking down never ending streets
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Just keep on walking down never ending streets
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General Mannerheim
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Re: Am I being picked on?
RM don`t do DDA reasonable adjustments but if they did they would probably still be the worst employers in the UK.mailman337 wrote:
In addition, if you have been having treatment for depression for 12 months or more then you should come under the DDA rules whereby employer has to make reasonable adjustments .
Royal Mail managers.....about as popular as a t.urd in a swimming pool!
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
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TrueBlueTerrier
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Re: Am I being picked on?
General Mannerheim wrote:RM don`t do DDA reasonable adjustments but if they did they would probably still be the worst employers in the UK.mailman337 wrote:
In addition, if you have been having treatment for depression for 12 months or more then you should come under the DDA rules whereby employer has to make reasonable adjustments .
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mailman337
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Re: Am I being picked on?
You should not be facing a stage 3 if that is all the time you have had absent, either your manager doesnt know the standards or he is trying it on, I would take out a grievance, and IMPERATIVE get union assistance, if your shift rep doesnt deal with this then I would go to your area CWU rep .
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mailman337
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Re: Am I being picked on?
Well I agree with both of you sort of, though RM can be pummeled into making adjustments if one is lucky, but the law (which I admit RM think they are above) is quite clear that if reasonable adjustments are refused , in event of a tribunal they would be guilty of discrimination. I went through a very similar experience due to arthritis and the effects of its medication (low immune system) and actually succeeded in getting some absence discounted, with the help of a superb union rep, so it isnt impossible, though not easy, I admit. I was stage 3 at the time . :cfo :cfo :cfo :mfo :mfoTrueBlueTerrier wrote:General Mannerheim wrote:RM don`t do DDA reasonable adjustments but if they did they would probably still be the worst employers in the UK.mailman337 wrote:
In addition, if you have been having treatment for depression for 12 months or more then you should come under the DDA rules whereby employer has to make reasonable adjustments .
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Like I said anyway in my reply to Stormproof the amount of absence since the stage2 reversion date does not warrant a stage 3 interview, to my best knowledge that is.
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Stormproof
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Re: Am I being picked on?
My rep has'nt had chance to see the DOM yet, hopefully he will tomorrow. I asked my rep this morning about going down the grievance route and he agreed. When I was diagnosed with depression it was 'reactive depression' according to my dr., bought on by working alone in Callers with no support from management. I feel fine now but am getting very stressed out with all this stage 3 business. Luckily I have a good rep who has supported me through the past couple of years of cr@p i've been getting off management.
So keep on moving, moving, moving your feet
Keep on shuf-shuf-shuffling to this ghost dance beat
Just keep on walking down never ending streets
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Stormproof
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Re: Am I being picked on?
I saw the DOM just as I was leaving today, asked him why/how another Stage 3 could be triggered, he said the sickness I had in July (3 days) related to my AOD in January was still live, even though the 3 days in July triggered the previous Stage 3 I had.
Now having an absence for Swine Flu its triggered it, too be honest it sounds like bullshit to me, how can the absence in July still be live if that has already been dealt with under a previous Stage 3. He told me in previous Stage 3 interview if I get another one I'm out. I've had enough of this fuc*ing company I hope they sack me now I will take them to an ET.
So keep on moving, moving, moving your feet
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General Mannerheim
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Re: Am I being picked on?
Sounds like a fit up to me!Stormproof wrote:I saw the DOM just as I was leaving today, asked him why/how another Stage 3 could be triggered, he said the sickness I had in July (3 days) related to my AOD in January was still live, even though the 3 days in July triggered the previous Stage 3 I had.Now having an absence for Swine Flu its triggered it, too be honest it sounds like bullshit to me, how can the absence in July still be live if that has already been dealt with under a previous Stage 3. He told me in previous Stage 3 interview if I get another one I'm out. I've had enough of this fuc*ing company I hope they sack me now I will take them to an ET.
Looks like your Dimwit has decided your one of his `office savings` for next years bonus.
Royal Mail managers.....about as popular as a t.urd in a swimming pool!
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
The DDA/Equality Act demands action,NOT words......adjustments NOT Occupational Health referrals.Case No:2505901/09
Royal Mail is an Equal Opportunities Employer..It discriminates against everybody.
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Stormproof
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Re: Am I being picked on?
Bit of an update, got called into the DOM's office this morning for a 'chat'. He said he won't be going down the Stage 3 interview route as he cocked up and ticked a wrong box or something. Did'nt have a clue what he was babbling on about, I was never very good at the Krypton Factor
He did tell me that if it had of been triggered he would've sacked me this time without consideration. He also said that his job is more important than mine, don't know why he said that, by that time I had started to glaze over 
So keep on moving, moving, moving your feet
Keep on shuf-shuf-shuffling to this ghost dance beat
Just keep on walking down never ending streets
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norbert
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Re: Am I being picked on?
Jesus ! - ticked a wrong boxStormproof wrote:Bit of an update, got called into the DOM's office this morning for a 'chat'. He said he won't be going down the Stage 3 interview route as he cocked up and ticked a wrong box or something. Did'nt have a clue what he was babbling on about, I was never very good at the Krypton FactorHe did tell me that if it had of been triggered he would've sacked me this time without consideration. He also said that his job is more important than mine, don't know why he said that, by that time I had started to glaze over
There'll be a Mexican stand off now for six months , 1 years - 2 years or more ? - who knows & there will be always some "bright spark" out to make a name for him/herself .
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k979aaa
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Re: Am I being picked on?
The reason is his job is more important than yours TOO HIM it is his and he can get his arse kicked by his boss for not getting you down the road!. But having said that all your relevant factors must be applied and they were not IN YOUR CASE AND AS SUCH HE CANNOT TICK THAT BOX!.Stormproof wrote:Bit of an update, got called into the DOM's office this morning for a 'chat'. He said he won't be going down the Stage 3 interview route as he cocked up and ticked a wrong box or something. Did'nt have a clue what he was babbling on about, I was never very good at the Krypton FactorHe did tell me that if it had of been triggered he would've sacked me this time without consideration. He also said that his job is more important than mine, don't know why he said that, by that time I had started to glaze over
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venom
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Re: Am I being picked on?
i would still put a greivence in against him .just to cover yourself saying he put you under imense pressure fo fear of losing your job .then finding out he had ticked the wrong box