I don't think that it would be fair of me to accuse you of breaking my job by striking, so I don't think it is fair for you to accuse me of breaking your strike by working. I respect your decision to strike, and I know that it is not aimed at hurting me (although it does, because it puts at risk everything). Please respect my decision to work, because I do not do it to harm your strike (although it does, because it goes its own small way to defeating the purpose of your strike). Sorry about that, but I guess that's life; we don't all get things our own way. Without agreement, there is no progress.
I think that going on strike is a regrettable last resort, like detonating a bomb. This occurs when all other less damaging options have been exhausted (have they?) and when the attempt to resolve the situation using common sense has FAILED.
I'm on no-one's side in this war except my own, because I agree with neither side. If the union wins through industrial action, I will take none of the credit. If the company wins by breaking the strike, I will take none of the credit, though perhaps plenty of stick. If both lose, and I lose MY JOB (worst case scenario) as a consequence, then I will take none of the blame. If both win, by reaching an agreement, then hip hip hooray

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